Category Archives: Skills

Don’t tell everyone your ideas

The creator of Spanx said, An idea is at it’s most vulnerable stage at birth. Basically, if you have a idea you want to pursue, it’s best not to tell friends and family because you could be discouraged from pursuing … Continue reading

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Settling for less

When you settle for less (when you don’t have to) there is a major problem with you. This comes from a sense of unworthiness. Unworthiness comes from many sources that treat you like you’re worthless whether it be bad people, … Continue reading

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Bring your keys with you

Even if you’re going to the door to get the pizza from the delivery guy, bring your keys with you. If you’re just going to take out the trash, bring your keys with you. If you’re going outside to get your … Continue reading

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Job Marginization

This was a term I’d never heard of until after I was fired. What marginalization looks like: Not being kept in the loop Exclusion from key meetings Your responsibilities have been slowly taken away Given work that most would be considered undesirable You’re … Continue reading

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How To Budget

First: Total up your monthly income. Include your paycheck, any hustles, freelance work etc. Second: List all your monthly expenses. Include your car, house/rent, utilities, Internet, phone, credit cards, groceries, clothes, hair, and other service costs. Be thorough and don’t miss anything. Total … Continue reading

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Loving when I don’t like them

Someone asked the question on Facebook: Can I truly love someone, like the Word says if I don’t like them? I believe the answer is: Yes, we can love without liking. Liking has to do with preference, but love has to do … Continue reading

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5 Reasons why women shouldn’t pursue men

This doesn’t apply to all women. I know there are some women who don’t act as extreme as what I’m about to describe. I wrote this article because some women, in the past, thankfully not often, have tried to pursue … Continue reading

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When men lust after you

The biggest thing young girls don’t understand is the difference between lust and love. Not only that, one of the biggest lies taught to women is that their level of womanhood is connected to how many men lust after them. … Continue reading

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Real friends have real friends

I was thinking to myself: in the past I was a true friend to others but they weren’t to me. These people are no longer in my life. Therefore I concluded: If you’re a true friend to others then only … Continue reading

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