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Author Archives: Nealreal
Don’t tell everyone your ideas
The creator of Spanx said, An idea is at it’s most vulnerable stage at birth. Basically, if you have a idea you want to pursue, it’s best not to tell friends and family because you could be discouraged from pursuing … Continue reading
Settling for less
When you settle for less (when you don’t have to) there is a major problem with you. This comes from a sense of unworthiness. Unworthiness comes from many sources that treat you like you’re worthless whether it be bad people, … Continue reading
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Bring your keys with you
Even if you’re going to the door to get the pizza from the delivery guy, bring your keys with you. If you’re just going to take out the trash, bring your keys with you. If you’re going outside to get your … Continue reading
Job Marginization
This was a term I’d never heard of until after I was fired. What marginalization looks like: Not being kept in the loop Exclusion from key meetings Your responsibilities have been slowly taken away Given work that most would be considered undesirable You’re … Continue reading
They don’t like me
You have to accept the fact that some people aren’t going to like you. There’s nothing you can do to change that. So don’t put your energy into trying to please everyone because people’s tastes change, they’re erratic, and their needs are insatiable. … Continue reading
The majority may be wrong
Just because the majority rules, doesn’t make the majority right.
How To Budget
First: Total up your monthly income. Include your paycheck, any hustles, freelance work etc. Second: List all your monthly expenses. Include your car, house/rent, utilities, Internet, phone, credit cards, groceries, clothes, hair, and other service costs. Be thorough and don’t miss anything. Total … Continue reading
Fashion Trends I Hate
Fake Eyelashes One trend I hate is these big, bushy, fake eyelashes on women. No man has ever turned downed a pretty girl because her eye lashes weren’t long enough. That’s not even on our list of things we consider … Continue reading
Christians & Matchmaking
A word to those folks who like matchmaking Christian men: I wish married and single women would stop trying to hook me up with their daughters or their lonely friends. First: The bible says, “HE who finds a wife finds … Continue reading
Loving when I don’t like them
Someone asked the question on Facebook: Can I truly love someone, like the Word says if I don’t like them? I believe the answer is: Yes, we can love without liking. Liking has to do with preference, but love has to do … Continue reading